Boundaries are about setting personal limits and is essential for building & maintaining healthy relationships!
Are you not sure about how to create boundaries? Or effectively uphold existing ones? Here is a great way to help you look at ways to improve your boundaries!
To successfully introduce and set boundaries, it’s key to understand why they’re each important to you and how they will benefit your emotional well-being.
One way to better understand boundaries is to take time to do some self reflection when you are in a situation that feels uncomfortable. When events happen, it is critical to think about why something is making you feel uncomfortable or "off."
Boundaries tend to become easier to set the more you practice and implement as well as the more you identify your personal areas that need attention.
It often feels uncomfortable if boundary-setting is new to you. People can feel guilt or uncertainty and it is important that you move forward at a comfortable pace so you can make the changes you need.
SET BOUNDARIES EARLY
By setting boundaries and expectations from the very beginning, everyone knows where they stand, and feelings of hurt, confusion, and frustration can be lessened.
Letting boundaries slide can be confusing for both you and the person the boundary is for! Consistency helps to reinforce your threshold and beliefs and maintains the lines are clear.
CREATE A FRAMEWORK
Boundaries can vary depending on the type of relationship. Pay attention to how you feel around different people in sharing your space or information. Expectations are a significant piece of setting boundaries. Think of it as a baseline. Different people or different circumstances might require modifications or adjustments to the boundaries you previously set. When you set boundaries, it help you to feel EMPOWERED! You are setting aside space and communicating clearly what is important to you!
What about communication?
Communication is critical in the world of boundaries, especially if someone consistently oversteps yours. While you might need to raise your concerns, these discussions need not be confrontational. Practicing how you communicate is a big key in navigating your boundaries!
It is also important to recognize the boundaries of others
In addition to setting your own boundaries, it’s important to appreciate those of others, too — even if they’re different from your own. If you or others are repeatedly violating boundaries can breed resentment and contempt, and cause people to withdraw. So how we communicate, and especially communicate boundaries, are very important!
Boundaries are essential for various reasons and look different to everyone. Don’t feel guilty about setting boundaries. They’re essentially a form of self-care. It might take some time and consideration to decipher the boundaries most important to you and the best ways to implement them, but your mental well-being will appreciate the effort in the long run.
This book by Dr. Henry Cloud is a popular one that make boundaries easy! Grab your Boundaries Book HERE to learn more!
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What if I told you that your goals, coaching, and frequency are all interconnected? You might be thinking, "What does frequency have to do with health and wellness?" Here's the thing: everything is made up of energy, including our thoughts and emotions. And that energy has a frequency.
When we're thinking positive, healthy thoughts, our frequency is high. When we're thinking negative, unhealthy thoughts, our frequency is low. What's interesting is that we can actually influence our frequency-and therefore our health and well-being-by setting goals and surrounding ourselves with positive people (aka coaches).
When we're constantly surrounded by negativity, it drags our frequency down. Lower frequency can create sickness over time as they lower our own vibration. But when we set goals and surround ourselves with people who will help us achieve those goals, it raises our frequency and helps us attract what we want in life. So if you're looking to improve your health and well-being, start by setting some goals and surround yourself with people who will support you on your journey.
Here is a great article about Quantum Mechanics: Nobel Prize work for Frequency Article
As a coach and therapist, one of my favorite tools is my AO Scanner- it is a frequency scanner that identifies frequencies that are out of balance. When frequencies are out of balance for a long time, that is when dis-ease comes in. This scanner helps identify areas that may need improvement as well as providing information on what is on target. Life events and stresses might influence your results, making it important to look at results over time and giving us more information on what lifestyle elements we can improve to support our personalized frequencies. Learn More HERE.
My favorite and most useful scan is the Voice Scan, which helps identify tones of emotional conflict, which also helps identify areas that are potentially suffering in the body. I love working with the voice scans, as they are very helpful in therapy sessions in identifying the emotions that are at the frontline. :)
We are all impacted by frequency. frequency is everything from the food we eat, to the music we listen to, to the thoughts we think. And according to The Emotion Code, frequency also has a lot to do with our emotional health. The Emotion Code is a method of healing that is based on the idea that our emotions are stored in our bodies as electromagnetic energy. This energy can get trapped, kind of like a psychic scar, and it can impact our physical and emotional well-being. By using The Emotion Code, we can release these trapped emotions and improve our health and wellness.
So how does it work? Basically, you use muscle testing to identify trapped emotions, and then you use specific techniques to release them. It sounds a bit esoteric, but there's actually a lot of science to back it up. And best of all, it's something you can do for yourself. If you're looking for a way to improve your emotional health, The Emotion Code could be just what you need.
Being an Emotion Code and Body Code Practitioner is another great tool to support my clients. If you want to know more about the Emotion Code, Grab the Emotion Code Book Here.
Oh, and as a side note- I admit, I first thought a lot of this stuff was, well- woo woo hippie thinking. But, after doing a lot of research and praying on how these tools can work for me, I have incorporated them, knowing that God has given us tools! It's interesting to think about how we fit into the grand scheme of things. We're these tiny little beings, and yet we have this frequency that allows us to connect with the divine. God created our body's and frequencies to give us information to help us. Our physical, emotional and mental health all benefits from frequency!. When we're in tune with our frequency, we're able to tap into a sense of wellness and peace. We become more attuned to our needs and are better able to take care of ourselves. We become more compassionate and loving people, which benefits not just ourselves but also those around us. So frequency is important not just for our individual health and wellness, but for the health of the world as a whole.
What are your thoughts, knowledge, and experiences with frequencies? Drop your thoughts and questions below! <3